The Real You vs. Work You: Why 61% of Us Are Hiding at Work
solo · Jacqueline V. Twillie
Show notes
Discover how authentic leadership, community, and self-awareness can transform your career and life. Suezette shares practical insights, personal stories, and strategies to help you lead fearlessly beyond titles.In this episode:
- Suezette’s journey from education reform to tech leadership
- The true meaning of authenticity in leadership
- How to uncover and eliminate self-imposed dissonance
- The impact of authentic leadership on organizational performance (147% stronger)
- The power of community and mutual support in growth
- Practical tools: reflective questions at each chapter to overcome fear
- How to align your career with your purpose and values
- The significance of self-assessment, discernment, and strategic alignment
- Introducing Suezette’s authentic leadership framework and upcoming trainings
- Why professional development is a vital investment, not selfishness
- Characteristics of inspiring leaders: curiosity, directness, and mentorship
- The “no titles” chapter: embracing your full potential beyond labels
- How to create environments that support authentic self-expression
- Practical steps for leaders to foster empathy, vulnerability, and inclusion
- The importance of living fully at 80 and beyond
- Connecting with Suezette: website, social media, and community programs
- Bonus: Recommendations for supportive organizations and actionable tips
- Suezette Yasmin Robotham’s Website
- Suezette’s Book: Beyond Titles
- LinkedIn - Suezette Yasmin Robotham
- Suezette’s TED Talk
- Official Training & Courses
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction & Suezette’s powerful journey to authentic leadership
02:48 - The secret sauce of attracting mutually beneficial relationships
04:24 - Misconceptions about authenticity and true leadership 07:57 - The reflective questions that heal & how to process fear 10:14 - Real stories of understanding real self versus work self 13:12 - Transition from education reform to tech industry—lessons learned
16:27 - The importance of alignment & trusting when things flow naturally
18:32 - Challenging hustle mentality & embracing ease through discernment
20:37 - Suezette’s mentorship program & how to unlock your full potential
24:17 - Characteristics of admired leaders and cultivating curiosity
27:07 - Upcoming curriculum on authentic leadership & organizational impact
30:50 - Advice for newcomers into tech & managing perceptions
34:28 - Strategies for identifying where environments align with your values
35:18 - The significance of “no titles” for self-awareness & growth
37:01 - How self-assessment leads to greater impact & fuller life 40:50 - Recognizing dissonance and releasing what no longer serves
42:34 - Final thoughts — living as your best self & embracing full capacity
43:16 - Connecting with Suezette: resources, social media & community call-to-action
Resources & Links:
Connect with Suezette:Embrace your authentic self — lead fearlessly and live fully!
- Suezette Yasmin Robotham’s Website
- Suezette’s Book: Beyond Titles
- LinkedIn - Suezette Yasmin Robotham
- Suezette’s TED Talk
- Official Training & Courses
Jacqueline V. Twillie is a negotiation strategist, three-time bestselling author, and the creator of the L.A.T.T.E. negotiation framework. Forbes named Winning Season one of the 12 must-listen leadership podcasts for women.
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