This Is How You Love Her: A Radical Journey to Self-Love with Traci Saulsberry
with Traci Saulsberry
Show notes
Join us as we dive into Traci Saulsberry's inspiring journey of self-discovery, leadership, and radical self-love. Traci shares powerful insights from her debut book, revealing how vulnerability, curiosity, and authenticity can transform our lives and careers.
In this episode:
- Traci's experience breaking barriers as one of the youngest Black executives at NBC and leading at Peacock
- The meaning behind her book's title and its importance for self-love
- How writing the book rewrote her, revealing unexpected truths and healing
- The importance of honoring your body and mental health in high-pressure environments
- Practical questions and journaling practices to foster self-awareness
- The power of surrendering to life's unfolding rather than forcing solutions
- How to navigate the "unnamed seasons" of transformation without rushing the process
- The role of worthiness and storytelling in advocating for yourself
- Book recommendations and how to pre-order This Is How You Love Her
Timestamps:
- (00:00) - Welcome and introducing Traci Saulsberry, author of This Is How You Love Her
- (02:06) - Traci describes herself as a "light, quiet storm, and builder"
- (04:24) - Love languages and how Traci freely gives love
- (08:55) - The cost of maintaining "okayness" at work and in life
- (11:29) - How writing the book transformed Traci
- (15:00) - Staying anchored amidst diverse roles and identities
- (16:47) - Recognizing the gap between external achievements and inner authenticity
- (22:07) - Navigating grief while building anew
- (25:43) - The unfolding journey: embracing serendipity and surrender
- (36:26) - The significance of anchors like childhood and relationships in understanding yourself
- (40:01) - What self-love really means beyond spa days
- (41:41) - Lessons learned the hard way, including imperfection and agency
- (42:48) - How to support Traci's book and pre-order information
- This Is How You Love Her — Pre-order Traci Saulsberry's debut book
- Calm App — Meditation and sleep app
- Junot Diaz - The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao — Book that inspired Traci
- NBC — Traci's leadership origin
- Abrams Books — Purchase links for Traci's book
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Special note: This episode is a treasure trove of practical wisdom for anyone on a journey to self-love, leadership, and authentic living. Be sure to grab your copy of This Is How You Love Her and reflect on the meaningful questions Traci shares.
Jacqueline V. Twillie is a negotiation strategist, three-time bestselling author, and the creator of the L.A.T.T.E. negotiation framework. Forbes named Winning Season one of the 12 must-listen leadership podcasts for women.
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